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 ■MEN IN LOVE

Men s Sexual Fantasies: The Triumph of love Over Rage

Nancy Friday




A DELL BOOK

Published by Dell Publishing Co., Inc.
1 Dag Hammarskjold Plaza New York, New York 10017


ISBN: 0-440-15903-2



Acknowledgments



I wish to thank psychoanalyst Richard Robertiello, M.D., for his professional assistance in reading all the fantasies in this book, and for giving me the benefit of his understanding of their meaning. If I have added my own interpretations to the clarity and brilliance he brought to our discussions, it is because  great teacher that he is  he always encouraged me to question even his opinions.
Further thanks are also lovingly given to two other friends, psychotherapist Dr. Leah Schaefer and psychoanalyst Sirgay Sanger, M.D. Their generosity in giving me so much time, the learning with which they suggested various corrections to my thinking, leave me permanently in their debt.

When I hear other writers deplore the failings of their literary agents, I am always reminded how much I owe my own, Betty Anne Clarke. I may not be able to point to any particular pages of my work and say Betty Anne suggested this idea or that; but without her courageous belief in me during the past six years, perhaps the pages never would have been written.
Happy endings are made all the more poignant by the memory of unhappy beginnings. At a time when few others were interested in my work, Linda Grey came forward with encouragement, advice, counseland a contract. My debt to her is one only the most fortunate of writers can understand.

N.F.









For my husband, Bill Manville,
whose name should appear
On the cover of this book with my own.
However, as women have long known,
It is not an equal world.

Contents

1 The Masculine Conflict 11
2 Masturbation 27
Drake, Harry, Bill, Allan, Lester, Clifton, Hal, Don, Jud, Julius, Burt
3 Sharing and Living Out Fantasies 57