"What-UncleGorby" - читать интересную книгу автора (What Leslie)Katya joined a support group for people who had sighted their relatives after
death. in all there were twenty: five members. Their leader, a woman named Sunny, made her living as a clairvoyant who performed past-life regressions. She explained to Katya the five stages after death. "Denial comes first," Sunny said. "Where you don't really believe someone is dead because the hospital wouldn't let you in to view the body, so you suspect they made a mistake." It turned out that this had happened to one young man, who swore that the nurse had pronounced his mother dead. He found out hours later, when the doctor made his visit, that the nurse had been wrong. The shock of it all was what ended up killing his mother. "The second stage," Sunny said, "is anger. Where you find yourself furious every time you see someone older or fatter than the relative you've lost." "It isn't fair," said the plump woman sitting beside Katya. "Why did my in-laws get to eat French Brie and live? And my poor husband, dead at only fifty-eight." Bargaining, Sunny said, was probably the most embarrassing one to admit. "You plead with God to take your cheap uncle instead of your father, because your cheap uncle never bothered to send you a birthday gift, even though you'd sent presents to him and his wife, and their three children -now grown --for twenty years." There was depression, the stage the support group told Katya they thought she was stuck in. Food was one cure for depression, or shopping, or time, or anti-depressant drugs. "Don't worry about putting on weight," the woman who had lost her husband said. "It's better than taking up smoking." "I'm not sure I agree with that," said the man whose mother had not really been dead. He pulled out a cigarette from his shirt pocket. "Smoking's not so bad," he said with a look toward the plump woman, "compared to other things." Last of the five stages was acceptance, but there were no guarantees one could get to that one, despite having gone through all the others. "But this didn't happen when my mother died," Katya said. "Why didn't I see her ghost?" "Maybe she had nothing left to say to you," Sunny said. After the meeting, Katya drove home and ate a bowl of ice cream while she listened to her stepmother's voice. "Honey. I have very bad news. Call me when you get in." Katya listened to the tape, and after, could not get to sleep. |
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