"Vadim Kirpichev. God does not exist (Scientific Proof) " - читать интересную книгу автораfirst step to the loves end is done. Faith falters, focus shifts from time
to time, but the feeling is far from spent. Optimal hormonal balance is reluctant to peter out, Hope strains to maintain it, clutches at any phantom, any ghost and mirage which helps to anchor the aim and to hold the focus. Then the last mirage fades, focus is totally lost and love comes to the end. Hope ceases to hold it, being itself indication of its decline. Circle is finished. The soul sees, consciousness certifies that the object of love has lost all ideal sartu qualities. Faith has died. Hope to reach happiness is extinguished. And the burnt soul berths in stillness as dried soil awaiting new life-giving showers, new disturbances, powerful hyperwishes. And if after such a shower a new sartu-charged object crosses ones way capable to give promises and maintain the level of promise - the focusing of sartu can happen again. The world will again appear glittering with Botticellis colours. Or not. Then the human lot is pitiful. Devoid of focus, unable to find aim in the entire Universe, burdened with everyday worries, hastened ahead by trivial needs you will trudge towards other people. And they will meet you with hateful yells. Definition of Love It is time to sum up. No matter who or where asks us about love, even in the middle of the night, we can not be taken unawares. Be it the love to money, God, woman, man or whatever - it is the aimed at a certain object Love is the focused sartu. Laws of Human Attraction The next step is to check harmony by algebra. It is not enough to define love in the sphere of humanities (Physicists still consider humanitarians just people yielding to the temptation to abandon themselves to lyrical feelings, demonstrating but various stages of ignorance in "real" sciences). That is why well try to formulate our findings in the form of an equation, or rather a system of equations. Because there are always two equations capable to describe love: the first is a description of Love-Hope, and the second - Love-Faith. Love-Faith is always trivial and basically uninteresting, that is why well pay maximum attention to the main equation of Love-Hope. 3.2. Equation of Love Updating Freud We can not do without Freud. We shall use the state of art elements of human psyche, accepted by modern science: Ego, Id and Superego. Allow me to remind basic categories. "Ego" is a domain of consciousness, the intermediary between the unconscious ("Id") and out-lying reality, including social structural elements which coordinate human unconscious with a concrete reality, |
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