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Your Goal

What is it that you want right now? Maybe you want to lose your virginity, sleep with a certain number of girls, find true love, or get a threesome. Or maybe you have goals that are more difficult to measure, like building confidence, becoming more outgoing, or becoming a better speaker. Whatever you goal is, it’s best to express it in a statement that will act as your guide and motivational force. Think of it as a corporation’s mission statement, that no matter what happens and what local creek is being polluted, you can look at it and remember what’s really important.

A lot of people set a goal, try half-heartedly to work on it for a month or two, realize it is difficult to accomplish, and then switch goals or quit altogether. But it’s a good goal if you aren’t sure you can do it or not―it’s a bad one if you are 100% sure you can. It should be a goal where you need to seek outside knowledge or acquire new skills. If it’s not hard, like most things in life, it’s not worth doing. There are two parts to every goal you set out to conquer: the journey to the goal and the accomplishment of the goal itself. The journey is where you learn, innovate, attempt, and put yourself through tough situations for the first time. This is where real growth takes place. (Sometimes accomplishing the goal gives you less satisfaction and pleasure than the little successes that preceded it.) And if you don’t quite reach your goal, that’s okay too. The journey makes the concept of failure a gray area because you will be putting yourself through changes that leave you with more knowledge on how to succeed than when you first started. You can "fail" all your life but still have accomplished much more than those who didn’t try. There have been volumes written on goal-setting that make it more complicated than it needs to be. Keep the process easy but effective by structuring your goal in this format: "I am going to ___________." Now write that on a small piece of paper or a note card. Put it in you wallet, next to your computer monitor, on your bathroom wall, or any place where you will see it at least once a week. Visualize the goal when you see your words to ready your mind for the work ahead.

Some productivity experts recommend you attach a deadline to your goal. For example: "I am going to sleep with a mother and daughter team within six months." I don’t advise doing this because the game is so unpredictable and quirky that time goals can be discouraging during the inevitable cold streak. As you gain skill, there will be periods where you sleep with multiple girls in a short amount of time, followed by nothing for several months. A strong desire to accomplish your goal that motivates you to act is enough.